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"Husband and wife" it is said to be one of the purest relationships on this planet. If we talk about India, marriage is done with a lot of celebration. India is a country of many religions and every religion have many castes so there are surely chances of inter-caste marriage. In my opinion inter-caste marriage and Love Marriage are same things because no one is going to fight with their whole family and society without any reason, they fight with them because of love, and love is a word without any definition, it's a feeling which is not defined in words, it's a flow which can be expressed only. Inter-caste Love Marriage has a lot of problems and couples are ready to face these problems just of this one word "LOVE". In this article we will talk about what are the problems faces during an inter-caste Love Marriage, then we will see what the reasons behind husband-wife disputes after the marriage are and then finally we will see that if astrology can help people from coming out of these problems.
Let's first talk about the problems in inter-caste marriage in our country-
1- India doesn't seem to like inter-caste marriage-
India is a country with many castes. Every caste has their own rituals. People have grown in age but their thinking is still far behind. They are not ready to adopt the thinking of new generation as a result of which they are against of inter-caste Love Marriage. The biggest problem is "what people will say". They don't think about the happiness of their children, what they only care about is what their society will think. This forces their children to run away from their home for marriage and later on it creates more problem.
2- You can get married out of your caste and then get murdered-
This is the saddest truth of our society. People are not ready to accept the love of two people and in anger they kill them. Still, in some parts of India couples are hanged from a tree or burnt in fire by their own relatives, even there are cases that a father or the brother burns her sister for doing Love Marriage out of her caste. They think this will not decrease their respect in the society, but they don't know that actually, it is decreasing the humanity present in them. They don't understand they can kill the human bodies but not the emotion.
3- No one will come to your support after an inter-caste Love Marriage-
Before inter-caste marriage, you are loved by everyone but when you start loving anyone else they will stop loving you. They want you to take permission from them to love anyone, it's like how dare you to love anyone without our permission, did we allow you? And really this is the case in our country, if you are going to do an inter-caste Love Marriage it means you are actually going on a war against all the members of your family, all the society and everyone else you know because in our country inter-caste Love Marriage is equivalent to crime.
There are some challenges because of which this problem arises:
- Cultural differences and rituals
- Parents deal with their children in the wrong manner
- Social pressure which is the biggest reason behind honour killing
So, I think these are some of the reasons which couple faces during inter-caste Love Marriage, now let's talk about the common husband-wife disputes after the marriage.
1- Law of diminishing marginal utility-
Yes, we know that it's an economics law but trust me it applies in this case also. The level of satisfaction decreases with the increase of time of the relationship. The more one individual consumes the services of their partner, the less they remain happy with it, and as the time passes this unsatisfaction is converted into small fights which later on have a big effect on the relationship.
2- The change with children-
Life is all about moving on, just like marriage is a part of life, there comes a time when your children become part of your life. Some couples are not ready to handle this responsibility, and they start saying the other one that it's your responsibility to take care of the child. They fight a lot in this matter and this is one of the biggest reason behind husband-wife dispute after marriage.
3- Family issues and no time for each other-
When the husband goes to work, the wife has to stay for the entire day with the mother-in-law who usually does everything in her power to make life miserable for the wife. They stick their nose in everything possible to break the marriage.
Yes, a little venting is acceptable but bad-mouthing all time puts a hell out a lot of negative energy around. Things get even worse when the situation goes out of the family. The family then starts comparing the daughter-in-law to others and makes her a helpless victim. Well, the things can be the other way around too. In many cases, it is seen that the wife plays a victim unnecessarily just to separate the husband from his family.
4- The ego controversy-
The ego is one of those things which break many relations. It's just the feeling of showing that who is better. How he or she can do this in the way I don't like it. This feeling creates a barrier between the husband and wife and I think this is the biggest reason behind the husband-wife disputes.
So, these are some reasons behind husband-wife disputes and if they are not treated well, it will later on results in the separation of the couple or I can say divorce.
So, finding solutions to these problems are very important and astrology can help you with it. Muslim astrology in India can help you with all of these problems and for more details, you can either call on - 9982805585 or visit the website- www.muslimastrologyonline.com