How to plan a bachelorette party that your friend will love?
One of the most important duties that you have as the maid of honor in your best friend’s wedding is to help het have the time of her life. No guy will ever be able to understand just how much we women look forward to this day. Even the girls who do not believe in marriage understand that the ceremony is important! And you, being the bride’s BFF, have the responsibility to make sure that everything falls into place on her wedding day and that the whole shindig is a exactly how she dreamed it would be, ever since she was a little girl!
And I don’t need to remind you that throwing the most spectacular hen party for your girl is a part of these duties. And I also know that you must already be pretty much overwhelmed with the responsibility. How will you ever be able to organize everything and ensure that the party turns out to be exactly the way your friend imagined it? Or even worse, how will you be able to surprise her in the party and ensure that it is something she will appreciate?
Decisions..confusions.. and looming deadlines..
Let me help you out a little..
Here is a list of things for you to consider when you sit down to brainstorm bachelorette party ideas for celebrating your friend’s betrothal. Make sure you cross off all these points before you finalize your party plans. You will then have nothing to be afraid of when it comes to the celebrations. Your friend will definitely love the event you will put together.
- Start from the beginning. Think back to the days when you met your friend for the first time and make your way forward. Do you remember anything she might have mentioned ever about her party preferences? Perhaps passing comment on another friend’s bachelorette? Something like "this is something I would never do!!" or the more helpful "I wish I too have a hen party like this one.." It will help you understand what her preferences are and will also tell you about any predefined expectations she might be carrying.
- List out her personality traits and preferences on a paper. Is she more adventurous or the stay safe type? Does she like nature and outdoors or will she prefer a simple indoor party? Luxury and affluence or minimalistic amenities? Wild parties or sophisticated celebrations? Get answers to all these questions.
- Think about the guest list too. Will she like a full blown party with all the people she knows or a more private affair with her closest buddies? The list will also have to sort on account of the type of celebration you are planning. You don’t want to end up inviting her mom to any celebrations that involve strippers.
- And finally, look at her needs too. She might really appreciate a nice long spa break out somewhere relaxing before the actual wedding. You might just give her exactly what she wants!