How Ready Are You to Propose?

In a cynical world where true love is hard to find, it is bliss to find someone who is ready to spend a lifetime with you without any complaints, any demands, just bonded by a string of trust and dedication. And when the love is so deep, isn’t it important to convey what you feel in a way that serenades your lover in style? Proposing your going-to-be soul-mate is not something you can take for granted. Along with the pressure of making it worthwhile for your significant other, there are many other questions that pop up in the mind, and trust us, the answers to them eventually decide whether the time is right or it’s a red flag. What follows are few important points every lover should know before popping "The Question".

Do I Know Her/him

Remember, there is no reset button once you have taken the move. Sometimes it is the true never-ending eternal love affair but there are also cases when it is just a mere rush of being in love. Before anything else, know yourself and then put all your efforts to know the one you are thinking to propose. After all, it is about marriage.

Ready or Not?

It should be her who should be surprised, not you! Don’t ask the question unless you are completely sure of the answer. Give her a clue, ask her indirectly, do whatever it takes but don’t dive in the pool if you are not sure of the depth.

Bond With Family

Before asking him or her out, know them and most importantly, know their family. In the long term, it is not just the compatibility you have with your partner that matters but also how well you get along with their family. Talk to their parents and figure out how flexible will they be to accept you as their family member.

What About Past

The last thing you want is to begin a new phase of your life with the shadows of a haunting past. If you think there is something you need to share about your past then please do it before reaching out for the proposal. Ask your partner to do the same to avoid any conflict at the later stage.

Practice!

Now that you have cleared all your doubts, concentrate on how you could make it unforgettable for your darling. It is a one-time opportunity so put all your efforts, plan the perfect movie scene and make her heart flutter.

Personalize The Moment

When you know the person you are going to propose in and out, you almost know everything that would be required to make it last forever. Scratch your brain and make a list of things you think she will appreciate, and use them in your picture perfect proposal scene, if done right this will actually blow her mind away.Take A Knee, Look In The Eyes and Say It!

Might sound corny but do it if you want to turn your proposal into an affair to remember forever. Every girl must have once pictured this scenario in her dreams, then why not bring it to life for her?

Remember one thing- In love, don't do anything half-heartedly. Take your time and once you are sure about the person, ask them these question and take a knee, we are sure it would become a moment you both will always remember.

Pragya Sharma, a dutiful daughter and a caring mother, has seen the ebbs and flows of relationships. In her write­ ups, she touches issues related to the institution of marriage .