Things to Consider if You Are a Woman Proposing Marriage

Traditionally, in Ireland, Leap day is the one time of year when women can take the reins with a proposal. Roles are reversed and it is the lady who is dropping to one knee. Of course, this is just a guide line and you do not actually have to wait for the next Leap year to make its rounds.

Though there has been a great deal of progress where women are concerned, it is still quite unusual for a woman to pop the question. This could be due to cultural norms, indecisiveness, or wanting to stick to tradition. Either way, it is not done very often. This does not mean that you should refrain from proposing to your boyfriend. There are some things that you may want to think about first, nonetheless. At the end, you can make a more informed decision regarding your choice:

Alternatives to a Ring

There are not exactly a lot of engagement rings for men. As women proposing is not very common, there is not a lot of demand for such an item. This does not have to deter you, however. Instead of a ring, you can also opt for a watch, cufflinks, or anything else that he can wear on a regular basis. It is the symbolism that matters, after all.

Gauge His Reaction

Just as a man considers what his girlfriend might prior to proposing, you should keep your man in mind. Not every man would appreciate being proposed to and your boyfriend may or may not be the same. For instance, for someone who is quite traditional, it can be quite shocking to be proposed to. Similarly, if your boyfriend needs to be quite masculine or take the lead in the relationship, he may not necessarily appreciate the gesture. If he is more laid back or easygoing, your question may not affect him as much.

Know His Stance

One of the more important things to consider is why you have decided to propose to your boyfriend. Is it because you are simply tired of waiting for him to pop the question? If this is the case, perhaps you reasons for proposing are not entirely solid. Prior to making your declaration of love, decide where your boyfriend stands on the whole marriage idea. If he does not seem to keen or is indecisive, he may not feel any different once you propose.

Consider Your Choices

Since you already breaking tradition, you don’t necessarily have to go the route of actually getting down on one knee. You can come with other equally romantic ways to ask the question. Perhaps you can take his hand or pull him close. There are many different ways that you can build up to the important question.

Before you decide to propose, remember that it is not all about your partner, either. You need to want to propose for the right reasons and because you are ready. Do not let internal or external factors pressure you into a decision that you may not be prepared for. Take your time and make sure that this is exactly what you want in your life.

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