Personalised Flash Mob Proposal Ideas

As mind blowing and complicated as your everyday flash mob appears to be, which to be honest is their ultimate goal, just about any average Joe can arrange for this public song-and-dance routine. Finding performing arts companies that offer this service is as easy as finding a plumber these days. However, if this is your favourite proposal idea and you’ve decided to go for it, be prepared to step it up a notch as the stakes are high. In this instance your beloved should be your inspiration for all the personalised details that, in your heart you know will melt hers.

Location, Location, Location

Thinking logistically, a flash mob can vary from 20 to 100 people, or even more depending on just how elaborate (and expensive) you are prepared to go. Therefore, you will need a large open area for the show. Flash mobs are intended to be highly public for the full showmanship factor, so bear in mind that you will need a moderately sized crowd present. The location that you choose also needs to be one that has some personal significance, even if it is just your girlfriend’s home town centre or office. And lastly, keep in mind that local authorities do not look kindly upon events that disrupt traffic or disturb the peace no matter how romantic their intent is, so be prepared and obtain permission where necessary.

Music to Everyone’s Ears

By choosing to do a flash mob you have simply decided on the delivery method of the ‘how to propose’ conundrum. Now comes the hard part. The message. As this is a flash mob, you will need a song or soundtrack for the dancers to perform to, and this is where your creativity has a chance to prove itself. You could choose her favourite song, customize an already popular tune or even write one yourself. Make it personal and make it heart felt, and be prepared to feel thoroughly on show. But isn’t that what this type of proposal idea is all about? Laying your heart on the line, publicly and whole-heartedly, to show the depth of your feelings while asking her to spend the rest of her life with you.

Accessories and Participants

This is also a great opportunity to add those personal touches to your proposal idea. Get your friends and family involved; the more the merrier to join in this joyous event! Choose some eye-catching and personalised accessories for your performers to wear, hold or interact with. For example, dress them in her favourite colour or style, have them all carrying balloons and release them at the end of the performance, or stage the event in the evening and have each dancer holding a sparkler. These details, which are what will help you orchestrate the ultimate proposal, will be amazing, entertaining and spectacular. And the main thing to remember is that whatever you decide to do, you must have fun with it.

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