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How to organize south Indian weddings?

Author: Igrace Events
by Igrace Events
Posted: Oct 29, 2018

South Indian Weddings are very different from those up north of India. Weddings are really special occasions for every couple and are truly an extravagant affair that is celebrated with a great pomp and show. However, weddings down the South are quite different from the North-Indian weddings since they are known for their simplicity and adherence to age-old customs and traditions.

Guide to Organizing a South-Indian Wedding

While running each and every step of your wedding, you will be highly astonished to realize how much of a simple flower arrangement would cost!

Pre-Wedding Rituals

Nakshatra Porutham: This involves matching the horoscopes as per the Vedic guidelines to find the perfect match for the boy/girl. The matching of predictions determines a lot of things for the impending wedding like the wedding date, precise moment for the wedding or muhurtha and other rituals as well. Wedding Planners in Hyderabad

Marriage Agreement: The marriage deal is drafted next by the priests on both sides once the wedding is fixed. This ritual involves the exchange of marriage agreements by putting it on a platter comprising betel leaves, betel nuts, a coconut and a bunch of bananas. The ritual also involves an exchange of gifts between the families.

Panda Kaal Muhurtham: This ritual is jointly performed by the bride’s and the groom’s families a day prior to the wedding. The two families visit a temple or may organize a special puja at one of the homes, and pray to the Almighty so that the wedding may happen without any obstacles.

  1. Sumangali Prarthanai: This is a special puja mainly centered towards the Sumangalis or married women who participate in the different wedding rituals. The women, normally grouped in odd numbers like three or five or seven, gets decked up in traditional nine-yard Madisar sarees.
  2. Vrutham: This ritual is performed at the groom’s and the bride’s place on the early morning of the day prior to the wedding. In this ritual, a sacred thread, colored yellow with turmeric is tied around the bride’s and the groom’s waists and is believed to safeguard the couple from evil energies.
  3. Naandi Shraddham: In this ritual, the groom’s family pays a visit to the bride’s home/wedding venue on the morning of the day prior to wedding wherein they are welcomed with a tray full of savors, betel leaves, betel nuts and fruits by the bride’s family. The bride’s family welcomes the groom with a shower of rosewater, puts a garland around his neck and applies a spot of sandalwood and vermillion paste on his forehead. The Brahmins are treated to traditional Tamil vegetarian lunch and are given traditional two piece garments along with betel leaves, betel nuts, coconut, fruits and sweets. The Brahmins give bless to the couples and wish them a prosperous life ahead.
  4. Nishchayathram: This symbolizes a formal engagement ceremony and commences with a puja to Lord Ganesh at the bride’s place. The groom’s family arrives at the bride’s place. In this ritual, both the bride and the groom are gifted some outfit and jewelry by their in-laws. A spot of sandalwood paste and vermillion is applied on the bride’s and the groom’s forehead, a floral garland is tied around the bride’s waist, their respective in-laws perform an aarti of the bride and groom and the married women from both sides fill up the free end of the bride’s attire with coconut, fruits, betel nuts, betel leaves, etc. The bride and groom are asked to dress up in new clothes after which an exchange of rings takes place between the couple.
  5. Lagna Pathirikai: This ritual involves the verbal announcement of the marriage date and the precise marriage timing by the family priests in front of the bride’s.This time of the marriage or the Lagna sumuhurtha is announced in front of all the family members of both the bride’s and the groom’s side. The lagnapatrikai is gives and signed by the heads of the two families. Following this gifts are exchanged between the two families. Event Organisers in Hyderabad
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