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Cliché or Tradition?

Author: Lisa Jeeves
by Lisa Jeeves
Posted: May 07, 2014

How did he propose? This is the most frequently asked question of every bride-to-be; remember this when coming up with proposal ideas. The way in which you pop the question will follow you around for years; get it wrong and you will have to hear about it over and over. Get it right, however, and you will forever have the respect and admiration of her family and friends (and bragging rights!)

With YouTube clips circling the globe displaying new, inventive, and romantic proposal ideas, the traditional posh dinner out has fallen out of favour. The tried and tested technique of hiding the ring in food has become tired and won’t earn you any points for originality or creativity – not to mention it could end up in an unfortunate trip to A&E! Also try to avoid making a public spectacle, even in front of her friends and family. Make the moment personal. It will mean more to her to have you one-on-one and won’t put so much pressure on either of you.

The Right Way

While there are some clichés we’d be happy for you to avoid, there are some traditions we girls would like to keep. Here are some definite ‘do’s’: asking for our father’s permission might seem old school, but both your future wife and her family will appreciate the gesture. No matter how independent your girl might act, her dad will always be the (second) most important man in her life. Failure to mention it will set you and your new in-laws off on the wrong foot.

Corny as it may seem, getting down on one knee is also important. Granted, it’s not 1950 and you’re not on a film set, but there is still a certain charm and romance about a man on one knee telling you you are the girl of his life; in addition, such a gesture will add seriousness to the occasion.

So when you work on your proposal ideas, remember that while some traditional trappings have grown to be considered tacky not all tradition is clichéd. And while it is good to plan ahead and be prepared, remember that the most important thing is to enjoy the moment; if you are relaxed and confident, you will transmit this vibe to your girlfriend also, and you will both enjoy your special moment that much more. Not to mention, girls like confident guys, so keeping your cool (within reason, of course – don’t suddenly become the iceman!) increases your chances of getting the answer you want to hear!

Laura L Bolick is the founder of the F&L Designer Guides, compiled and written to help consumers choose the best and the most unique engagement ring designers in the UK. Join the F&L journey that covers topics related to proposal ideas, choosing the right stone, affording your engagement ring and how to work with talented designers.

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Author: Lisa Jeeves

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