Gemstones and Folklore

Overall, there are a number of reasons for brides and grooms to choose unusual gemstones to be set into their engagement rings. Some may just not like diamonds; others may be seeking to stray from the herd; others still may be doing it for symbolic or astrological purposes, and others may be trying to protect their partners from a curse or a circumstance.

In fact, a few gemstones are so closely associated with myths and superstitions that some people take them into consideration when making their choices. Amethyst, agate and emerald engagement rings, in particular, are likely to come with the sort of superstition and myth-laced baggage their gemstones carry with them.

Amethyst, for instance, is believed to get rid of plagues of locusts, as well as to change colour when near poisoned food. It is also said to be the stone of choice for businessmen, athletes, hunters and, indeed, lovers, so shoppers with partners in any of these professions (or those just looking to ensure their relationship is stable and long-lasting) would do well to rely on this type of stone.

Emerald engagement rings, on the other hand, are associated with myths, superstitions and beliefs concerning a variety of diseases, including eye diseases, epilepsy, dysentery, loss of memory and even blindness. This stone is also very often connected to a successful love life and is considered by some to be an aphrodisiac, so emerald engagement rings may also be a good choice for those seeking to ensure their relationship, engagement or marriage goes well in the long run.

Another stone frequently associated with myths and superstitions is agate, which can be used to cool boiling water and is believed to protect its wearer against snakebites, tropical thunder storms and evil eye spells. While not as practical for the modern-day western couple, this stone will still make a perfectly gorgeous ring for brides and grooms with exquisite and unusual taste.

Other examples of stones with superstitious connections include garnets, believed to protect their wearers against flying insects and bubonic plague, but may not be stolen at the risk of contracting a curse; and opals, traditionally thought to bring bad luck when presented as an engagement ring and therefore off the list for couples ready to take the next step.

If you do believe in myths, superstitions and curses, then it is best to guard yourself and your partner against mishaps by casting a glance over the list of stones associated with folklore beliefs.

Laura L Bolick is the founder of the F&L Designer Guides, compiled and written to help consumers choose a unique engagement ring design. From emerald engagement rings to princess cuts and engraved bands, we have ideas and opinions covering all the options. Offering advice, tips and suggestions on how to choose that perfect ring, F&L will accompany you on every stage of your search to find the right designer.

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