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How to Talk Confidently with Girls | 10 Simple Things to Gain Confidence

Author: Aditya Thakur
by Aditya Thakur
Posted: Feb 18, 2020
How to Talk Confidently with Girls | 10 Simple Things to Gain Confidence

Confidence is something that you need everywhere. Most of us have the confidence of talking to other people. But when it comes to girls, many guys get nervous. They don’t know how to talk confidently with girls.

To be honest, I used to get nervous while talking to girls, but I worked on it, and now I am confident enough to talk to any girl.

So what did I do? How did I gain the confidence of talking to girls? It’s simple, and I am going to share these things with you.

1. Take a deep breath and realx

When a girl suddenly comes to a boy and asks something, most of the boys get nervous at that moment. It happens because we didn’t expect that. The best thing you can do is, take a deep breath and relax. It will remove your nervousness to a great extent.

Even when you are talking to any random girl, just do the deep breathing. It’s a great way of getting rid of being nervous. When you are not nervous, you can talk freely and you will feel more confident.

2. Think before you speak, but don’t overthink

Many people use abusive language while talking to anyone. They get habitual of this. So when they talk to any new person, they use the same abusive language, even if they don’t want to. If you also have the same habit, then you need to take care of your words. In this case, it’s better to think for a second before you speak.

It’s better to think but not overthink. I know a few of my friends who think too much before talking to a girl. They think "Hey, what should I reply if she asks this", "What If I reply her wrong" and so on. Why do you think so? Are you in an exam or going through interview? If you overthink, you will get confused. Then you will lose confidence instead of gaining. So if you are also one of those, stop overthinking.

3. Look into her eyes

Instead of looking here and there, look into her eyes. It is one of the best ways to talk confidently with a girl. The more you look here and there, the more you will get nervous. Hence you will not listen to her properly. So it’s a better option to look into her eyes while talking.

4. Speak slowly

If your rate of speech is high while talking to a girl, there are high chances that you get a little confused. Your mind will not have enough time to think about what to speak. As a result, you will speak what comes in your mouth.

To avoid this, slow down your rate of speech a little bit. Take a deep breath and start speaking slowly but clearly. Now your will mind has enough time to think. It’s the best way to get comfortable and gain confidence while talking to a girl.

5. Use body language while talking

It’s proven that if you use body language while talking, it shows that you are confident. You will also feel confident because your hand gestures will make you feel that you are explaining the things in a better way.

So while having a medium to a long conversation with a girl, you can use your body language.

6. Talk to more girls if possible

Try to talk to more girls in your class, office, or other places. The more you talk to girls, the more you will learn the way of talking to a girl. You will come to know how girls talk or behave with you.

This is one of the best ways to gain confidence while talking to a girl. It’s just like practicing for getting better.

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Author: Aditya Thakur

Aditya Thakur

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