First Date: Gay Bear Shirt, Hats and Other Important Tips

Yup, we all have gone through this, and it happens to the best of us. Confusion about what to wear and whatnot. How to behave in front of him? What if he doesn’t like me at first sight? What should I wear that he would like? There are so many questions that go on in our minds. It is fine!

From the best gay bear clothing to how-to-behave tips, we have got you covered. Let us start with the perfect outfit.

Gay Bear Shirt and Hats

Why specifically a shirt and hat? Here is the explanation. Jeans can work with almost anything. But, a casual shirt expresses your personality. For instance, a colorful shirt represents your outgoing personality and is welcoming.

On the other hand, a minimal print and single-colored shirt expresses that you are a little introvert in nature. Remember, your clothes represent your personality. Don’t be afraid to bring it out.

Okay, the shirt is fine. Why a hat? A gay bear hat is something to show him that you are proud of your sexuality. It enhances your appearance and adds playfulness. Above all, it reflects your confidence and also builds his trust that if he decides to take this relationship forward, you will be proud to have him too.

Meaningful Conversations

Make your date enjoyable. Do not drag it with lame generic questions such as "What do you do?" "Where did you go to school?" "How long have you lived here?" so and so on. These questions instantly take the attention away from a romantic date to a conversation of elder-kids. If you want to know deeply about their lives, say something about yourself that you have not told anyone. It works every time. They will tell you more than you would have asked for.

First, gay bear shirts and hats and now meaningful conversations, you are ticking every box here.

Find Common Interests

In between those deep conversations, feel free to pick up the cue and ask about what they like and whatnot. Try to find what is common between you two. Bonding grows healthier over common interests than any other thing.

Make Efforts and End the Date on a Solid Note

When your date comes to an end, be a real gay bear and be clear with your intention. Rather than saying that "We should do this again sometime," tell him whether you want to meet again or not. Also, if you do not want them to go, tell him that you are open to rejection. This is an instant liking point. When you tell someone that you want to listen to their opinion, most of the time, they would say what you want to listen. But still, be open to the rejection. One in a thousand times, they can say no.

Do Not Wait to Text Them After the Date

Do not show them that you do not care. Instead, text him about the date. Tell them how you felt, and you like him. Just end the night here. Do not go on aggressive texting on the first night after the date. Be a good gay bear. Text him the next morning. This is when you will get the real reply, whether they are into you or not. If they reply positively, then it’s yes.

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All the best for your first date!