Are Sapphire Engagement Rings a Threat to the Diamond Monopoly?

It has not always been the case that a diamond was the most popular stone for an engagement ring. Although diamonds were recorded in betrothal rings in the 15th century, other stones such as rubies, emeralds and sapphire betrothal rings were more popular.

Over the centuries, among the rich, coloured gemstones were preferred. It was not until the mid-twentieth century that they became the default choice for engagement rings. There is a story that in 1936 Jean Harlow refused her diamond engagement ring from William Powell; he changed it for a sapphire engagement ring, which she felt was more glamorous. Elizabeth Taylor was given a cabochon sapphire by her second husband, Michael Wilding.

Royal gemstones

The British Royal Family seems to have a tradition of using coloured gemstones. They have not been swayed quite so much by the trend for diamond engagement rings. The Queen Mother, Princess Anne, Princess Diana and the Duchess of Cambridge all received sapphire engagement rings. When Prince Andrew proposed to Sarah Ferguson, he presented her with a ruby ring.

More and more couples are now choosing coloured gemstones instead of a diamond to express their feelings for each other, indicating that there is a return to a more personal and meaningful choice when selecting a ring. There are even couples who do not have a gemstone at all but decide on a design in gold or a different metal that is pleasing to them. This is an even older tradition, going back to Roman times when betrothal rings were engraved or created in different designs.

Language of stones

As with the language of flowers, which is largely forgotten today, so gemstones have their own language as well. This would have been a factor in the choice of a stone for the couples’ ring. This symbolic language is being revived today, and it is interesting to discover what characteristics different stones symbolise. Rubies signify passion, energy, strength and love; yellow sapphires and diamonds mean sociability, enthusiasm and optimism. Diamonds, along with pearls and moonstones, stand for innocence and simplicity, while emeralds mean harmony, good luck and peace. For strength, truth and good health, then it must be a sapphire. Engagement rings’ gemstones can hold hidden meanings that can have a special meaning for the individual.

Durability

Another, more practical reason why sapphires are such a popular choice is their durability and strength. Because of these qualities, they are hard stones which means they are not easily scratched, chipped or damaged by chemicals used around the home. This makes sapphires a very attractive choice. Sapphires are found in various colours, some more widely known than others. Blue is probably the best known colour, but they come in pink, yellow, purple, lavender, green, orange and brown, and even white. This makes sapphire engagement rings a very attractive option because of the stones’ durability, diversity in colour and, of course, their brilliance and clarity, all making them a tough rival to a diamond ring.

Frederick Holm is staff writer for of the F&L Designer Guides, compiled and written to help consumers choose a unique engagement ring design. From a diamond to a sapphire engagement ring from a princess cut to a platinum band, we have ideas and opinions covering all the options. Offering advice, tips and suggestions on how to choose that perfect ring, F&L will accompany you on every stage of your search to find the right designer.

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