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Tips On How You Can Achieve Your Dream Wedding

Author: Wendy Aguiza
by Wendy Aguiza
Posted: Nov 04, 2013

The height of many romantic relationships is the day that the couple gets engaged. That said, the romance of the engagement is often quickly overshadowed by the stress of planning a wedding. Here are a few suggestions for the couples who wish to make the planning of their wedding as enjoyable as their actual wedding.

When you are getting married, ask for help from family and friends, especially those who have gone through the wedding process before. They will help to offer you exceptional advice, as they have the experience that is necessary to give input on your decision. Tap into the heads of your loved ones for sound information.

When you are planning to tie the knot, pick your bridesmaids in advance. This will help you to take away a lot of the pressure that you will face when you are getting married. Make sure that your picks are very personal to you and are key people in your life.

If you have guests who are traveling to a destination wedding, make sure that you give them gift baskets at the hotel they are staying at. This will help to show the appreciation that you have for them for changing their plans and traveling to be a part of your festivities.

At your bridal party, try to make things as fun as possible with the people that you love. Have manicures and pedicures done to reward the people who made the biggest impact in your life. This will help to keep things casual as well, so that the mood is set for the party.

Make sure that you never plan your bachelor or bachelorette parties the day before the wedding. There may be a lot of drinking at these parties, and the last thing that you will want to do is ruin the day of your wedding because you are not fully functional. Have a calm day right before your wedding.

Brides with sensitive skin can de-stress before a trip down the aisle by adopting a skincare routine that creates a glowing, revitalized appearance that won't cause breakouts, hives, or irritation. Look for a bridal facial treatment that includes skin-soothing and brightening ingredients like rose, sea salts, oatmeal proteins, and creamy scrubs.

Want a novel idea for your wedding and reception? How about a cruise! More and more people are choosing to take their destination wedding and have it on a boat, and there are many great reasons for that. You'll find excellent catering, an on-site bar, and they have all the decor and set-up items you need already on deck.

Part of the planning for a destination should include checking out the typical weather for the time you want to get married. It's not recommended to go to Bermuda during hurricane season, for example. Try to plan for a time where the weather is guaranteed to be sunny but not too hot.

Give the children who attend your wedding some responsibility to keep them occupied. If they have to guard the ring with their life, or count how many people come in the doors, they'll have something to do and it should keep the boredom at bay. They may need to have different tasks to keep occupied, though, as they could become tedious.

Make sure to let any parents attending your wedding know the itinerary for your day so they can work situations like naps, changing diapers, feedings, or bedtimes into the schedule. They can also plan to have a babysitter, if necessary, and know when they'll have to leave to go home to relieve her.

If you are running low on money or want something unique, you do not have to buy an actual dress made for the bride at your wedding. Check out some of the different types of bridesmaid or department store dresses, which will offer you a beautiful alternative at a fraction of the cost.

Wedding Reception

When working the room at your wedding reception, you should stick to your new spouse. The two of you together should be mingling with all your guests, showing the unity that will keep you going through your long relationship together. Introduce your partner to anyone he doesn't know, and he should return the favor.

If you are using a wedding planner, it is important that you work with them to make the seating arrangements. You know your guests, so you know who should be seated with whom. A wedding planner is just going to randomly put people together, which could end up causing tension and stress at your wedding reception.

For both brides and grooms, it is important that you do not drink too much at your wedding reception. Although a few drinks are okay, getting drunk will just make you not remember your day and could cause you to do or say something that you are going to later regret.

If your wedding reception is beginning to look more like a child's birthday party, have all the children gathered up and taken to their own area to enjoy some suitable entertainment. A clown or magician can keep their eyes locked on him while you and their parents dance the night away.

Make sure the lights at your reception venue have dimmer switches. Although this may seem trivial, you want the option of having a low-light setting during your first dance and a more brighter setting for the rest of the celebration. Ask the venue about this before committing to it.

Consider serving a smaller meal at your wedding reception. If you want to have a lot of guests at your wedding, you may need to cut costs in other areas. You can stick to your budget if you serve a smaller meal to your friends and family members. If that is not an option, you will have to cut your guest list instead.

One common mistake many wedding reception planners make is having a very long buffet line. There are many ways to plan around this, having several buffet lines for different types of food, creating a system so that not everyone goes to the buffet line at once or forgoing buffet lines completely and opting for waiter service.

Coming up with a seating plan for your wedding reception can be complicated. You will obviously want to avoid seating people together who might have issues with each other; however, you will also want to avoid seating people together if they are simply unlikely to have an interesting time. A good guideline to follow is to seat based on relationship similarities and age. You want your family members together. You will also probably want young singles seated together, and young couples together.

When deciding on food for your wedding reception, take into account everyone who is on your guest list. Try to keep in mind what kind of food your guests do and don't like, or can and can't eat for health reasons, and try to plan accordingly to have something on the menu for everyone.

Consider a cash bar for your wedding reception. Alcohol is popular among guests, but it is also expensive. Opting for a cash bar puts money back in your pocket that can be used toward the rest of the wedding expenses. Guests still have the option to drink, so everyone is happy.

Any couple that applies these ideas to their wedding planning might just find the process a further bonding experience. Learning how to make plans for a wedding together can be part of the foundation in planning your marriage and life together. These tips are geared not only towards making a couple's wedding great, but also their relationship going forward.

For more info on have a great wedding, why not have a look at our website at Uniqueweddingreceptionideas.com, which is the author's site.

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I love to read books and want to share all the things that I've learned from books and from my own experience.

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