Be The Driver Of Your Own Life

In today’s scenario, life is full of uncertainties where we pass through many inflection points of past and future, from those points we have learnt a lot of things about facing different situations in life and such situations often drive us towards different paths or at times we drive ourselves towards the different paths as per the requirements. Since situations have always had a great influence over humans, decade after decade has passed, we have read, experienced and even seen great examples of situations and their influences over the human lives. Man runs hither and thither, he tries to find his goals all the time, even we can say in his whole life, he continues to spend his time finding his purpose of life, once he achieves something he runs for another goal, and then he runs again, again and his thirst for success never stops, Ultimately the resultant vector shows that he doesn’t get what exactly he wants.

Chaos in choosing Career

We are living in an intensely globalized world where interdependence is seen everywhere, we usually depend on others, especially in some of the most important decisions of our life. According to the estimates, 90 per cent students take 90 per cent of their decisions under the influence of something or the other or as the case may be. Moreover, they land in a career either by choice or by compulsion. Some get confused whether they should choose Bank Services or any other government Job.

They are unable to decide whether to follow the syllabus of IBPS for Bank jobs or to follow the syllabus like that of SSC for other government jobs. What we require here is a consistent strategy and action on our decisions and to avoid making decisions wedged with confusions in our life.

Learn to say ‘No’

At times a protectionist mindset validates whether the decision should be theirs or their son’s or daughter’s. Everything that you acquire is not completely based upon what you like and what you desire, here you need to oppose the ideas and decisions courageously if you feel that you should not choose the path, you are compelled to. You must learn to say ‘NO’ for many decisions in your day to day life because one wrong decision can shape your life in a different and unwanted way, and it is a matter of concerns, we realize that the caravan of our life is moving in a way completely different from our pre-decided path and the situation is getting out of our hand. It is, therefore, you need to prioritise your own decisions which emerge from inside.

Ability to take decisions

As breathing in and out (oxygen) is essential for our life to exist on the planet. Similarly, taking decisions is also one of the most essential parts of our life. What you say, reflects your thinking, and what you think reflects what you are and of course, what you can be in the future. Many a time in life, humans bear the burden of unwanted commitments and try to compete for or even sustain them, which they have acquired under the influence of something or someone.

We can co-relate it to the life of today’s students who are very much confused in choosing their career options, they take wrong decisions under the influences and proceed with their ideas, but over a period they realise that the decisions taken by them are wrong and should be changed. But when they try to change their decisions, they find the most critical opposing situations which again were under the influence of others. Moreover, here the vehicle of life goes out of control, and even the driver of the vehicle is completely ignorant to the roads of his final destination.

Here we require self-motivation and self-determination for doing things properly if the students are changing their decisions after facing any problem in their life related to the decisions; it shows a lack of confidence and laxity in self-determination in the life.

Let’s get connected with us, here we provide you a better guidance as per your choice not any kind of influence so that you may shape your future as you want, and drive your life where you want to see it. For making this all true, you need to ‘Be The Driver Of Your Own Life’.

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