4 complete personality turn-offs: a guide for guys
Posted: Aug 16, 2016
Believe it or not, but a hot body and a pretty face are not exactly enough to make you attractive and desirable to other people. Here are 4 personality traits, which are a complete turn-off!
I get it, you are popular, successful, rich, fit, beautiful, and generally are a good catch. Yet, none of it means you have to be arrogant. Humility is a virtue, my friend. There is a difference between being confident and being overly arrogant. Learn it and avoid the later as the black plague. Remember, though, being humble is not the same as downgrading yourself. You main goal is not to reduce your worth and level of importance; it is to stop throwing how amazing you are in other peoples’ faces.
Don’t get me wrong, you don’t have to be an Einstein. By no means you have to be a genius to score a lover; however, it would help you if you are not completely ignorant. Unfortunately, not many people understand the difference between the stupidity and ignorance. While the first trait implies you are not exactly bright, the latter means you prefer to stay this way no matter how wrong you are.
If you are not respectful, there is no reason why you should ever have a girlfriend or a boyfriend (whichever way you swing, my friend). No one likes rude people unless they have this particular trait themselves. Do you really want a significant other, who is a bitchy and mean mess? If you do, well, there is nothing we can do about it. If you don’t, maybe try to be politer. There is no way you are better than anyone else, and there is certainly no way you have the right to act like a jerkface.
4. Herd Mentality
Also known as "sheep", people, who possess a herd mentality are not exactly perceived to be overly attractive. If you have the most muscular body, the prettiest face in the world, and the best haircut in New York, they would not make up for the lack of personality and opinion. Don’t try to be perceived "cool" or "successful" by conforming to the "norms" and "standards" of the circle you are in. A few thing are more attractive than a strong character and an independent personality.
If you possess any of these personality traits, we highly suggest re-thinking your life choices as soon as possible.
Hey! I’m Jessica Carter. Last year I finished Ual (University of Art London) with a specialization in Fashion Journalism. Now I live in Nyc and practice skills received there. I try writing about fashion trends for different magazines and websites.