How to Make Time for Family: 5 School Rituals

Our lives are riddled with tasks to complete. The trash needs to be taken out, the dog needs to be walked, and your kids have activities to go to. And it feels good to check items off of our list. We feel we've made progress.

But what about those things that matter but aren't tangible?

"Not everything that can be counted, counts. Not everything that counts can be counted." - William Bruce Cameron

Family time is that sometimes elusive thing we wish we had more of. Let's check out 5 school rituals that help incorporate that quality time with those we love.

Often, (you’ll see in the examples below that) it’s more about using the time we already have in the best way possible.

Also, see 11 Back to School Traditions Your Family Will Love

1. Morning Rituals

School is such a big part of our days, and we'd be remiss not to have rituals before and after it. Start your morning rush in a POSITIVE way. Begin every morning with a hug or five minutes to play together. Prepare your homework and food the night before so the morning runs as smoothly as possible.

2. Days off

The school calendar leaves plenty of days off, so plan ahead. Could you take a short vacation? Or a trip to a coffee shop? Perhaps cuddling in bed while you read? Make those school days off something the whole family can look forward to.

3. After School Questions

When the day is over, make it a ritual to ask the kids about their day. Choose questions that help kids say more than it was "fine." What hard thing did you do today? Who did you play with at recess? What was your favorite subject today?

Dig deep and get to know your kids!

Related Post: 33 Impactful Questions to Ask Kids After School

4. Get Involved With School

There are so many wonderful opportunities to see your kids at school. Not only do they love the visits, but they get so excited to show off their school life. Take a lunch to eat with them in the cafeteria once a month, join them for field trips, or volunteer for a morning to help with a special project. Not only will it improve your relationship, but those small visits will help you find out more about their environment.

5. Celebrate School Milestones

Be sure to celebrate the small and big wins your kids achieve at school. Take them out to eat, sing a special song, or let them choose the movie you watch. Emphasis effort when they accomplish something they are proud of, and be sure they know you’re proud of their work.

In Conclusion

Just because kids are in school most of the day, doesn't mean quality family time isn't possible. The relationships we build when our kids are young build lasting memories and deep connection throughout their lives. It's worth the small effort for the big long term payout. So, start one of these rituals today!

Jenn writes at her blog healthyhappyimpactful.com. She’s a mom of three looking to learn and grow. Check it out if you love helpful tips on health, family, and personal growth.